I did not see people who work hard late at night busting their but for success. I only see their success and that is the problem. Achieving success is one of the expectations that most human beings have, but not everyone knows how to achieve it. It depends on each person, what he does about it. Would you like to be a successful person?
Characteristics of a successful person:
Do you know the difference between people who are successful and people who do not?
Anyone can succeed in what they want if:
What qualifies as success is what they really want.
It is achievable for them,
It does everything necessary to obtain it,
During the time it takes.
What do you want?
To achieve success we have to work.
It often gives us the impression, that to people who are very successful, things are simply given to them.
If it is important for us, we will overcome any obstacle and we will reach the desired goal.
Therefore, it is very important that, if you want to be successful, you have very clear what success means to you, what you know, what you want. But when you are after it then the hard work is not the issue but, the success is!
Achievable goals:
An achievable goal is one that we can obtain.
That it is in our hands to reach it.
Maybe we need time, help, learn some skills, etc. but we can do it.
There are goals that can be very easy to reach for other people, but not for us.
That does not make us better or worse people than others.
It simply shows that we have a facility for certain things, in which we can succeed and difficulty for others, in which, if they are important, we need to seek help.
Importance of the action:
One of the main causes of the lack of success is that, often, the goals remain in desires, plans or dreams, because we do not carry out all the necessary conducts to achieve them.
Some of the main reasons are:
We are not motivated enough to make the necessary effort,
They are not well planned and we “get lost” on the road,
We do not know what to do or how to do it,
We want immediate results, etc.
But the main cause is our attitude towards life.
We have two options before life and before the things we want.
Take an attitude:
- Active or
- reactive
When our attitude is active, we act so that things happen as we want them to happen. When it is reactive, we passively wait for things to happen, to see how we can or have to react to them and if it is not necessary to do so, we simply let them pass. Almost always, the people who are successful belong to the first group, since they look for it, provoke and maintain it, while the people who belong to the second group usually end up dissatisfied, complaining and looking for someone to blame for what happens to them.