The high is the cost of being you? The true value of a person is not in his intelligence, nor in his talents, nor in his abilities, nor even in his principles … It takes courage, much courage, to always tell the truth, to always have transparent behavior with others and act in a straight and clear way.

That is to say: be honest and act ethically. Surely many of those who read this column, and suddenly on more than one occasion, have participated in processes to define the mission, vision or values of the company for which they work. When faced with the definition of values, there is the easy temptation to express what one wants, the duty to be and not the reality. However, what really needs to be identified is the present values, those that are practiced daily, those that characterize the organization.

More often than we imagine, the vision, mission, and values of a company are exactly equal to those of a thousand more. It is as if these definitions were a simple ‘recipe book’ to frame and look on the walls of the offices and not the reflection of the essence, the creed and the daily practices of those who form the company.

Be certain, however, that ethics and honesty are essential in the list of values of any company and, above all, that these same precepts can be applied to this “company” that we call home or family, and that is our primary responsibility. Let me raise, once again, these questions: Have you reflected on your mission in life? Is your vision clear? Can the values they preach be appreciated and recognized by anyone who is by their side?

The authentic value of a person, the most valuable, the one that is exclusive, unmistakable, the one that is innate to the great human being, is that tremendously generous ability to place oneself in the place of the other, to forget oneself, to substitute the SELF.

To neglect our arduous desires to meet the desires of those who really need you at that time. That quality, which is so scarce at present, is the one that has more value , because in a world as superficial and chaotic as it is today, where each one walks alone and looks for himself, it is really difficult to find people who Do not just worry about yourself, but worry about making you feel happy .

Feeling empathy requires a high degree of attention, an extraordinary effort to observe the other.

Let us be more human and develop our empathy, let’s place ourselves in the place of the other and try to understand it in each situation. Human relationships would work much better if we practiced active listening from our hearts and truly appreciated the feelings and needs of others.

Ask yourself every day, what can I do today to make you feel better?

The courage to change yourself mentally into something greater than you already are. Since many times we find people who begin to blame their poverty on their parents, economic systems, the couple, and others when in reality the entire weight of your entire finances falls on you alone.

Stop complaining

It is essential that you leave the complaints aside. To transform your whole life that step is very important. This is part of the mentality of poor people, who regret not having been born in another place, in another family, in other circumstances, and thus, without deciding to change their reality. Thus, he is constantly complaining to his friends how miserable he is and how quickly he runs out of money, seeking to receive compassion from others. However, people with money always think about how to overcome difficulties and increase their income.

Undertaking without passion

And this is also a mistake since most of the projects of those who undertake without feeling love for what they do end up experiencing failures. Stop throwing curses on your work, stop blaming your boss for your financial situation, stop complaining about Mondays, and start to observe every day an opportunity to continue growing and increasing your income.

Value at your time

Stop wasting time, use it to get involved in projects that will help you profit. Learn about how to generate extra income and focus on it while you are unemployed. Do not lose a second of your life, because, to get money, you have to work. Millionaire people are fully aware of this.

Try to handle these movements

Well, as we have mentioned, many times we tend to make expenses, even higher than our income and the money goes quickly, in addition to the debts we incur. So, it’s not about how much money you have, but how you handle it. There are those who can win the lottery, but the next day it happens that they no longer have a penny.

Learn to spend

This is essential so that at the end of the month we can still count on some money to our credit. In fact, there are small expenses, usually called ant expenses, which we do and do not realize, like taking coffee every day in a restaurant, when you can prepare it at home, buy a newspaper, when in fact you can read the news online, between others. And, even if you do not think that they are important expenses, the truth is that when you make an account at the end of the month, you will realize that all your efforts go in small things that add up to a more or less large total.

As you have read, there are strategies to start to stop being poor and become a successful person with a lot of money. However, everything starts with your way of thinking. Starting today, mark as a purpose in your life, your fortune and start working for yours.

Although this does not happen from one moment to another, we are sure that you can modify your thoughts and create a new reality. Wake up early, organize a plan and start working for your new future.